When the offense comes up, don’t go there. Keep your mind on the positive. Think on things that are good, wholesome, uplifting. It’s not doing anything productive to think about something negative that was said about you, relive how that person walked away, rehearse all the pain and disappointment, go back over all the sorrow.

That’s going to keep you from healing. Let it go. That’s in the past. God saw what happened. He heard what they said. He knows what you lost, what wasn’t fair. If you’ll let it go, He’ll make it up to you. He’ll give you beauty for the ashes.